Write
Your Own Love Letter In 6 Easy Steps :-
You want to tell your partner how you feel about them but you end up
staring at a blank screen for so long you give up. Or you try a few
lines only to delete them all and start over. Again. Why is it so
hard to tell the loved one in our life exactly what they mean to us?
Do you struggle to find the words to properly convey how you feel?
Or is it that you just can’t explain it? Don’t let words get in the
way of telling your loved one how much they mean to you.
Everyone wants to be
loved. When you are busy living life, there never seems time to slow
down and really savour that central relationship that makes it all
worthwhile. Oftentimes we think that those closest to us know
exactly how we feel about them and how important they are to us. But
the sad reality is that often they don’t.
So how can you write a love
letter that you will feel proud to give and one that your loved one
will cherish for all time? Where do you start? Follow these easy
tips below and you’ll be on your way in no time.
First
write down 5 things that you love about your partner and be as
specific as possible. Rather than writing that they are kind,
instead be detailed about how they are kind. Perhaps they always
smile at waiters in restaurants or they are great at making people
feel included, especially at parties.
Write
down 5 things that they have done that confirms how much you love
them and again, give examples. Perhaps they enveloped you in a hug
last night when you were feeling frustrated about your family. Or
maybe they knew how disappointed you were when you missed out on
that promotion and they cooked a special meal to cheer you up.
Pick the
best three examples from each of the above categories and weave them
into your letter. You could start by saying ‘I love how you…’ and
then include the three examples from the first point. Then you could
say something like ‘I loved the way you…’ and then mention the other
examples. Make sure you emphasise how their actions made you feel,
how loved you felt and how grateful you are to have them in your
life.
It is
best to write up a draft first and then go over it to see if you can
improve it. Sometimes it helps to write up what you want to say,
edit it until it flows well and then leave it for a day or two
before going back for a final edit and polish.
Buy some
special paper and write out your letter. Don’t worry if your
handwriting isn’t perfect – it’s distinctly yours and your loved one
will appreciate the time and effort you put into the letter. If you
feel your writing is so bad it will be difficult to read or if your
illegible handwriting is something you’ve argued about before then
pay to get it hand written by a professional. At a stretch you could
use a more romantic font on your computer, say Garamond in italic,
but you should really only do that as a last resort. The more
personal you can make your letter the more your loved one will
treasure it.
Think
about how you plan on delivering this letter to them. Will you slip
it in their briefcase? Mail it? Leave it under the pillow? Do you
want to be there when they open it? If you want to see their
reaction, then it is best to hand it to them. You could team the
letter up with a small gift like flowers or chocolate but make sure
the gift doesn’t diminish the letter as you want that to be the main
focus.
If a birthday or anniversary or other special occasion
is involved you’ll want to include mention of that too.
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Love I found in you
You are the air I need to breathe
The river of life inside of me
You are the half that made me whole
You are the anchor of my soul
And you are strong when I am weak
You are the words when I can't speak
You never fail to see me through
That's the love I found in you
You are my shelter from the storm
You are the road that leads me home
Baby with you here face-to-face
Oh, I know I found my place
'Cause you are strong when I am weak
You are the words when I can't speak
You never fail to see me through
That's the love I found in you
Once in every life
You find the one who's right
And when you say forever, it's true
That's the love I found in you
You are strong when I am weak
You are the words when I can't speak
You never fail to see me through
That's the love I found in you
That's the love, love I found in you
Poetry © by <>
Poem Submitted by
Kumar Jaising,
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